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COMMON MYTHS / BELIEFS SOME PARENTS HAVE ABOUT
CHILDREN TRAINING IN MARTIAL ARTS.
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Martial arts will make my child violent or abusive.
Absolutely false. Instructors teach that martial arts are only for
self-defense purposes and are to be used as last resort after all other
measures have been exhausted. It is a fact that when an individual has
knowledge then he or she is more likely to respond with little or no
force at all because they are not acting out of fear but from a higher place
and therefore have the self confidence and self restraint not to respond
with greater than necessary force to stop an attack. Students at our
school learn confident body posture, avoidance techniques, awareness of
surroundings, verbal defense, negotiation, as well as the necessary physical
& mental techniques to be able to defend ones self and decrease the chances
of serious injury, death or kidnapping. When people know nothing, they
often do nothing! They panic and freeze out of fear. Put some "tools" in
your families self defense tool box and they will be ready if something does
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Martial arts are a form of religion.
Absolutely false. True, Buddhist monks did study martial arts.
However this religious connection has been popularized on TV shows & movies.
The reason the monks studied martial arts was the fact that they where easy
targets for bandits &
thieves. So the monks, in order to protect themselves, often
during long and lonely travel periods, would train in the various martial
arts. Throwing a kick does not make you a monk no more than wearing a
cross makes you Christian or Catholic. We do not have any
religious connections or teachings taught in our martial art classes and we have
people of all faiths within our school. Everyone is welcome! |
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Martial arts will make my daughter / spouse / loved one
less feminine. If anything it can make them more feminine by
toning and conditioning their bodies & minds, often losing unnecessary
weight and improving cardio performance. This myth often comes from men who are
often insecure about themselves and feel a need to control the household and
women in general. What they truly fear is a woman growing up
to be less submissive (to them) and more assertive, independent & confident. Knowing that 1 in 5 women are sexually assaulted & child luring &
abductions occur daily, why in the world would anyone not want their loved
one to be confident, strong and able to defend themselves? Although it is a fathers duty
to protect their family, you are not doing them any favors by withholding
the training & skill they need to survive, knowing that some day, a very
real and violent assault could come their way. And if or when it does
you can bet you will not be around to help them. Give them the self
confidence & tools they need now to prepare them for what we all hope will
never happen later. |
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I am worried my child will get injured.
This is a common concern because it is our duty as parents to protect them
from harm. However, our classes are very safe. Of course
anytime you do anything that involves moving your body you risk getting
injured. However you will be pleased to know that more injuries occur
playing such common sports as baseball, skateboarding, football, running,
bike riding and paintball than occur in a martial arts class.
Even dance and gymnastics have more serious injuries than martial arts
training. Why is this? Because people think you are fighting and
striking each other all the time and hitting each other with full contact
shots! Not true. Yes we do sparring but full protective safety
gear is a requirement consisting of head guard, mouth guard, groin cup,
hands & foot protectors, shin guards and optional chest protectors.
The gear is not for full contact, knock out fighting. It is for both
persons safety and light to medium contact is only allowed to the body.
Facial shots are no contact for beginners and light contact for advanced
students. Dangerous but illegal techniques are not allowed in
sparring. Such techniques include; kicking to the knee, striking with
the elbows, eye pokes, neck shots, back of head and spine, knees to groin
etc. Save those techniques for when you need effective
street self defense. Only about 25% of the class is dedicated to
sparring and this is only after the student has learned some basic
techniques, blocking, dodging skills, etc. Most of the class consists
of partner drills, exercises, target drills, kicking techniques, throws,
heavy bag training, forms, self defense, line drills etc. Common minor
injuries include; minor sprains, muscle pulls, sore muscles and the rare
bloody nose from a misplace punch. Over the years we have had several
students come into our class wearing casts or sporting injuries from other
endeavors. None of which occurred while training or practicing the
martial arts. Their injuries were usually from falls or running into
someone or something (ball, pavement, etc) during an activity, such as
playing soccer, baseball, falling off a bike etc. Most accidents that
do occur in class are very minor and could have been prevented if the
students had listened to their instructor. We don't allow horseplay,
unsupervised sparring, excessive contact, anger or verbal abuse in our
classes. We expect all students to be mindful and respectful of others
and to be alert for dangerous behavior both in the dojang and outside it as
well. |
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Do black belts have to register their hands/feet
with the police as deadly weapons? This is a question that has
been around for years and is still asked by the rare few. This is
false. No registering is required. It is also not a requirement
to warn someone who is threatening you that you are trained in a martial art. That
gives away the element of surprise when the attacker thinks they have an
easy target. It also might increase the chances of them pulling a
weapon or getting their buddies to help assault you. |
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